Saturday, January 24, 2009

Lilly Allen wants to marry a rich man

The 23-year-old singer - who was recently romantically linked with art dealer Jay Jopling - says her priority is to maintain her success long enough to meet her dream wealthy partner.

She said: "I just hope I can stay famous enough for a little bit so someone rich will marry me. That's all I really care about these days."

The Fear singer - who has dated a string of older men including Chemical Brothers star Ed Simons - also said she has never felt comfortable with people her own age.

She added to Interview magazine: "I was very unhappy at school. I didn't get on with people my age. I don't know why. Adults were far more interesting. I think I spent too much time with adults, and I just thought kids were stupid."
Despite her aversion to other young people, Lily insists her unconventional choice of friends has helped her.

She explained: "I don't feel like I missed out. I feel like I got quite a lot of stuff out of the way that people my age are just kind of confronting now, like alcohol and drugs and relationships."

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Friday, January 16, 2009

Soon to be the "one president at a time," he starts schmoozing the press

Nothing throws the Washington press corps into a bigger tizzy than being ignored.

Being dissed is something the press corps can live with—in fact, they love being dissed. In the early 1970s, for example, every Washington journalist with a spot on Richard Nixon's enemy list treated the affront as money in the bank. The unlisted felt like failures.

Barack Obama's brain trust understands the insecurities of the press. How could they not? The campaign's chief strategist, David Axelrod, was a star political reporter for the Chicago Tribune. But rather than feeding and caring for the press, the Obama campaign worked the media's insecurities to their man's advantage, largely freezing reporters out in a successful effort to control his message. In what can be described only as a psy-ops coup, the Obama campaign denied the Washington Post editorial board an interview with their candidate. And of that slight they were proud. As the New York Times' Mark Leibovich wrote in December, the campaign bragged about it. "You could go to Cedar Rapids and Waterloo and understand that people aren't reading the Washington Post," incoming Obama press secretary Robert Gibbs told Leibovich.

So having won the election without wooing the press, what is Obama's new press strategy?

Courtship! On Tuesday night, Obama dined at George F. Will's house with name-brand conservatives Charles Krauthammer, David Brooks, William Kristol, Paul Gigot, Peggy Noonan, Michael Barone, and Larry Kudlow. The liberal commentariat got their audience the next day, when Obama met with Eugene Robinson, Maureen Dowd, Frank Rich, E.J. Dionne, and others at his transition headquarters. As I write, he's touring the Washington Post, where he was interviewed by the paper's editorial board and its White House team.

The new romance goes only so far. He's still avoided the "traditional" pre-inauguration interview with the New York Times, as Politico's Michael Calderone reported yesterday. Calderone catalogs the four substantive interviews Obama has given the Times over the last 18 months or so and notes the welter of miniature press conferences Obama has given to make transition announcements. What seems to irritate the Times the most is the president-elect's dismissal of the order of things, which mandates a sit-down session with reporters.
Perhaps the Times should count its blessings. As of late, when Obama does speak, as he did on Dec. 7 on Meet the Press, Dec. 28 on 60 Minutes, and Jan. 11 on This Week With George Stephanopoulos, he tends not to say much. The closest Obama came to giving Stephanopoulos any news was when he answered a question about investigating torture and warrantless wiretapping under the Bush administration. Obama said, "We have not made final decisions."

As John Dickerson wrote last month in Slate, the Bush administration regarded the Clinton administration image-handlers as "day traders," constantly smuggling themselves into the news action, whereas the Bushies thought of themselves as "long-term investors," in former Bush counselor Dan Bartlett's words. Of course, both approaches imagine the media—as opposed to the press corps—as a giant pipe organ that can be played to pacify the citizenry. And neither the day-trader approach nor the long-term approach requires a presidential administration to speak to the Washington press corps.
In a November column, I predicted that despite Obama's skill and luck at managing the press, a war between the two was inevitable. Even though few of my predictions ever come true, I'm willing to double down on that original prophecy. One reason Obama continues to float above the press is that he hasn't had to decide anything yet besides who will fill his Cabinet and senior-staff positions. Obama is so committed to keeping his options open that he's yet to decide between a Portuguese water dog and a Labradoodle for his daughters.

One of Obama's most effective press dodges has been to say that there can be only "one president at a time," which he did twice in one press conference a few days after his November victory—first in discussing the economy and later when asked about Iran. On Dec. 1, he used the phrase again when asked about the Mumbai butchery. In late December, chief strategist David Axelrod invoked it for him on Face the Nation while talking about Gaza.

This "one president" shtick is entirely situational—it didn't prevent Obama from broadcasting his own stimulus plan on Jan. 8, 12 days before Bush was to leave the White House. Perhaps Obama's media outreach this week marks his premature segue into the Oval Office.

In my previous column, I drew on veteran reporter James Deakin's wise 1984 memoir Straight Stuff: The Reporters, the White House, and the Truth (1984) to wager that Obama and the press would soon start rumbling. As Deakin observed, in the press corps's eyes, the president can't win for losing. He's either moving too quickly on the economy or too slowly. He's either coddling hostile nations or baiting them. He's making his predecessors' mistakes. He's ignoring his campaign promises. He's too rigid. He waffles too much.

Share this article on DiggBuzz up!Share this article on BuzzAs our financial crackup widens, the auto industry goes under, and 15 percent unemployment follows, the nation will experience economic pain that aches, then burns, then stings, and finally throbs. Because every political issue connects at some level to economics, Obama will become the focal point of the crisis and the target of the media's critical cameras and hostile pens. Will he wish he'd put some goodwill in the bank? Either way, it will be war as you've never seen before. Grab a hat and a helmet.

How Newspapers Tried to Invent the Web

A moment of sympathy, please, for newspapers, whose readers and advertisers have been fleeing at a frightening rate.

It would be easy to accuse editors and publishers of being clueless about the coming Internet disruption and to insist that the industry's proper reward for decades of haughty attitude, bad planning, and incompetence is bankruptcy.

But newspapers have really, really tried to wrap their hands around the future and preserve their franchise, an insight I owe to Pablo J. Boczkowski's 2004 book, Digitizing the News: Innovation in Online Newspapers. The industry has understood from the advent of AM radio in the 1920s that technology would eventually be its undoing and has always behaved accordingly.

For instance, publishers aggressively pursued radio licenses in the early days of broadcasting and, later, sought and acquired TV licenses when they were dispensed. As early as 1947, Walter Annenberg's Philadelphia Inquirer and John S. Knight's Miami Herald experimented with fax editions of their papers. Seems visionary enough to me.

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CLOSENewspapers and other media entities started experimenting with videotex technology in the 1970s, according to David Carlson's Online Timeline. Newspapers considered themselves vulnerable to new entrants and worried aloud to anybody who would listen about falling readership. In 1979, the Knight Ridder newspaper chain established a videotex subsidiary to develop its Viewtron service, Boczkowski writes. Clunky and toylike by today's standards (see the silly, pre-Donkey Kong-quality graphics), the early system required an expensive, dedicated terminal. Yet after conducting trials in 1980, the system held sufficient promise that Knight Ridder succeeded in selling Viewtron franchises to other newspapers. More than a dozen other dailies played with videotex during the decade, including newspapers in the Times-Mirror chain, Cowles Media, and McClatchy Newspapers, as well as at the Chicago Sun-Times and the Washington Post.

Howard Finberg of the Poynter Institute remembers that Viewtron could fetch from the "Miami Herald or the New York Times the night before the paper hit your doorstep," access the Associated Press, look up airline schedules, access bank account info, and order a meal online. Not bad for the dark ages, eh?

Broadcasters joined the text fray, too. In Los Angeles during the early 1980s, CBS was testing the Extravision teletext service, and NBC was experimenting with its own offering, Tempo L.A., according to the New York Times.

So intense was the industry's devotion to videotex and so rampant its paranoia that some other medium would usurp its place in the media constellation that the American Newspaper Publishers Association lobbied Congress in 1980 to prevent AT&T from launching its own "electronic yellow pages." Washington Post Co. CEO Katharine Graham, then chair of the ANPA, and other publishers met with Sen. Robert Packwood, R-Ore., to discuss the legislation that would free AT&T to start its service.

As the Wall Street Journal would later report, Packwood said to the publishers, "What you're really worried about is an electronic Yellow Pages that will destroy your advertising base, isn't it?"

Graham's response: "You're damn right it is."

Videotex failed to catch on commercially, with Knight Ridder burning through $50 million before closing Viewtron in 1986. The industry's next favorite newsprint alternative was audiotext, and while Boczkowski writes that the format generated modest profits, it never enjoyed the wild enthusiasm that videotex did. As the decade progressed, the Chicago Tribune, Minneapolis Star Tribune, Hartford Courant, and the New York Times revisited the idea of fax newspapers. Some of the fax editions found a niche but not much more.

According to Boczkowski, newspapers didn't rush into videotex because they were visionaries in a hurry to invent the future but because they were "reactive, defensive, and pragmatic" about their mature, lucrative business. Having observed the videotex experiments in England and elsewhere, they feared that if they didn't adopt the technology or at least test it, somebody else would and displace them. Once they determined that nobody could make money from videotex and the technology posed no threat to the newsprint model, they were happy to shutter their ventures.

By the mid-1980s, the industry's biggest worry was that the PC, which had eased its way into homes and the workplace like an algae bloom, would somehow supplant them. Boczkowski acknowledges that newspapers' early online strategies were as much about blocking new competitors as beating a path to the future. That said, by the early to mid-1990s, the New York Times, the San Jose Mercury News, the Chicago Tribune, the Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, and many others were producing electronic-edition business, striking deals with the burgeoning proprietary online systems, such as CompuServe, America Online, Prodigy, and Interchange, or throwing content up on bulletin board systems.

Share this article on DiggBuzz up!Share this article on BuzzPublishers adored the proprietary online services because they locked down the user experience to the newspaper's benefit. A Washington Post spokesman quoted in Boczkowski's book applauds the way Interchange "preserves the company's direct business relationship with Post readers."

The publishers were pretty sure that proprietary online services were the next wave, but if you remember having used one, you know how badly they sucked. Let's say you subscribed to AOL to read the New York Times but wanted to read a story in the Washington Post. You couldn't get to the Post from AOL because the Post was published exclusively on Interchange. What you had to do was disconnect your screeching modem from AOL, purchase an Interchange subscription, log onto Interchange, and then navigate to the Post. A return visit to the Times required the reverse of that drill.

The extreme suckage of proprietary online services stemmed from the fact that they were "non-generative" technologies, to borrow a phrase from Jonathan Zittrain's excellent The Future of the Internet—And How To Stop It. Nongenerative technologies can't be tinkered with or otherwise improved by outsiders. The iPhone is a good example of a nongenerative device: Its software updates "actively seek out and erase" unauthorized modifications, to paraphrase Zittrain.
Generative technologies such as the PC, on the other hand, invite improvement by outsiders, making them more and more useful to users as time passes—and often more useful in ways that the original designers never would have imagined. When you connect a generative technology to a nongenerative one, you usually end up crippling the generative one.

Indeed, the proprietary online services—the AOLs and CompuServes—hobbled the PC, turning the versatile and powerful machine into a dumb terminal. It's a tribute to newspapers and their keen sense of the future that they quickly determined that the online services would never attract the masses they desired. No sooner had newspapers taken up residence on the proprietary online services than they were packing up their pixels and starting their en masse migration to the World Wide Web, which was as generative as the online services were nongenerative.

Newspapers were anything but late arrivers to the Web party, according to Carlson's Online Timeline and other sources. Among the earliest pure Web newspapers in the United States were the two dueling dailies started in San Francisco during the autumn 1994 press strike—one by union members and one by management. (As a point of reference, the high-tech sharpies at Wired spun off the Hotwired.com site in October 1994.) The San Jose Mercury News broke from AOL and started on the Web in February 1995. USA Today launched a Web edition in August 1995. Later that year, the Boston Globe started its Boston.com, and the Los Angeles Times announced plans to leave Prodigy. The New York Times and Washington Post got webby in 1996. After that, few newspapers held back. Boczkowski writes that more than 750 North American dailies were publishing on the Web in April 1998, and by July 1999 only two of the 100 largest dailies were not.
Newspapers deserve bragging rights for having homesteaded the Web long before most government agencies and major corporations knew what a URL was. Given the industry's early tenancy, deep pockets, and history of paranoid experimentation with new communication forms, one would expect to find plenty in the way of innovations and spinoffs.

But that's not the case, and I think I know why: From the beginning, newspapers sought to invent the Web in their own image by repurposing the copy, values, and temperament found in their ink-and-paper editions. Despite being early arrivals, despite having spent millions on manpower and hardware, despite all the animations, links, videos, databases, and other software tricks found on their sites, every newspaper Web site is instantly identifiable as a newspaper Web site. By succeeding, they failed to invent the Web.

Addendum 1, Jan. 6: My colleague Adrian Monck adds this sharp take about the newspaper industry's techno dance. He writes:

As I've posted before (and others have pointed out), there were plenty of executives who did make smart strategic decisions about the challenges facing the industry. Robert Marbut, then CEO of newspaper group Harte-Hanks, was absolutely clear about the threat and opportunities offered by new technology back in the mid-1970s:

The fact that the same technology will be used by media other than daily newspapers will mean that others could enter the marketplace for meeting information needs and encroach on the franchise of an established newspaper … new technology will make it possible for the consumer to get his needs met in a variety of ways in the future, again setting the stage for continued fragmentation of media which could lead to further encroachment of the newspaper's share of market.

So in the 1990s Harte-Hanks dispensed with its newspaper, TV and radio interests.

Addendum 2, Jan. 6: My colleague Scott Rosenberg, who helped edit the Free Press during the San Francisco newspaper strike and later left the San Francisco Examiner to help start Salon, offers an additional answer to my question about why newspapers' early Web experiments didn't end up offering "plenty in the way of innovations and spinoffs":

In the '90s, if you were at a newspaper and learned about the Web, you were likely to grow frustrated and disillusioned with how slowly the paper's management was waking up to how the new medium actually worked. They got on the Web, and then just sat there. So if you had any restless or entrepreneurial gene in your body, you would sooner or later give up on your arthritic bosses and go do something interesting online yourself or with some startup. The newspaper industry suffered a steady exodus of the very people who it should have been relying on to navigate the new waters.

Addendum 3, Jan. 6: Wayne Citrin writes that I should have made mention of the work done at Knight Ridder's Information Design Laboratory in the mid-1990s. IDL was working on a portable, battery-powered electronic tablet that its designers hoped would start replacing newspapers by 2001. Knight Ridder shut the lab in the summer of 1995.

Addendum 4, Jan. 6: Chuck Moozakis, editor in chief of Newspapers & Technology, sends me this terrific history of electronic newspaper distribution.

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2008 saw Healthy Celebs under medication

Christina Applegate diagnosed with breast cancer
"Samantha Who?" funny girl Christina Applegate, 36, shocked fans when she publicly announced her breast cancer diagnosis in August. Applegate's mother is a breast and cervical cancer survivor, so the actress was vigilant about screening and was diagnosed at an early, treatable stage. After undergoing two lumpectomies, followed by radiation therapy, Applegate was tested for the breast cancer susceptibility gene mutation, BRCA. She tested positive for the gene mutation and made the difficult decision to have a prophylactic double mastectomy, a preventive measure removing both breasts.

"It just seemed like, 'I don't want to have to deal with this again. I don't want to keep putting that stuff [radiation] in my body. I just want to be done with this.' And I was just going to let them go," Applegate told Oprah Winfrey in September. Now, Applegate is back at work, undergoing an 8-month reconstruction process, and planning to start a program to help pay for MRIs for high-risk women.

Patrick Swayze announces he has pancreatic cancer
America's favorite dirty dancer announced his pancreatic cancer diagnosis in March, after the National Enquirer ran a story claiming the actor had five weeks to live. Swayze, 56, joined more than 30,000 patients diagnosed with the disease each year, 5 percent of whom live more than 5 years after being diagnosed. He has been successfully undergoing treatment while awaiting the airing of a new TV series, "The Beast." "It's a battle, and so far, I've been winning. I'm one of the lucky few that responds well to treatment," says the actor in a statement to People magazine.

David Duchovny admits to sex addiction
Celebrity rehab isn't a new concept, but "X-Files" actor David Duchovny made news when he announced in August he was voluntarily going into rehab for a sex addiction. Playing a womanizing writer in the TV show "Californication," Duchovny is no stranger to sexual addiction accusations. In the mid-1990s, Duchovny was forced to deny reports that he had attended meetings to control his obsession and told Playgirl magazine, "I'm not a sex addict," in a 1997 interview. Though the American Psychiatric Association doesn't recognize it as a "diagnosable disorder," 3 to 6 percent of U.S. adults suffer from compulsive sexual behavior, according to the Mayo Clinic. Symptoms range from having extramarital affairs to frequently using pornographic materials, but experts aren't sure of the exact cause. As of early October, Duchovny had completed rehab, but was separated from his wife, actress Téa Leoni.


Tim Russert dies of heart attack
Heart disease, the leading cause of death in the United States, claimed another life this June. Tim Russert, 58, the NBC News Washington bureau chief and the moderator of "Meet the Press," died of a heart attack. While recording voice-overs, he collapsed and was rushed to the hospital. Diagnosed with asymptomatic [coronary artery disease], Russert was controlling the disease with medication and exercise and had done well on a stress test in late April. Unfortunately, heart attacks are not uncommon, causing about 150,000 deaths per year. Read about ways to treat those at risk for coronary artery disease.

Britney Spears admitted to psych ward
Former pop princess Britney Spears, 27, started 2008 off with a bang. After divorcing her husband, Kevin Federline, in November 2006 and spending 2007 shaving her head, excessively partying, and checking in and then quickly out of rehab, Spears began 2008 in the UCLA Medical Center for a psychiatric hold. This was her second visit to the hospital, after she was held at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center, following a custody standoff with police.

With most of the world questioning her mental stability, two separate sources who are acquaintances of the family told People magazine, "There is no question she is bipolar ... she's had manic episodes for years." Bipolar disorder can cause extreme mood swings, from manic episodes of very high energy to extreme lows of depression. Although Spears has never been diagnosed, there is plenty of speculation. A Santa Monica, Calif.–based psychiatrist said Spears's actions suggested "classic bipolar behavior, including hypersexuality, poor judgment, and impulsivity," according to People magazine. Whether Spears suffers from bipolar disorder or not, the singer seems to be making a comeback, releasing her sixth album, "Circus," and announcing a world tour beginning March 2009.

Heather Locklear goes to rehab
It may have been nearly 10 years since "Melrose Place" went off the air, but drama is still following Heather Locklear, 47. In June, the actress sought treatment for anxiety and depression at a medical facility in Arizona. After remaining under doctors' care for a month, Locklear returned home. Two months later, she was arrested on suspicion of driving under the influence and being under the influence of a controlled substance, and then officially charged with driving under the influence. The actress has kept a low profile since then, working on her new movie, "Flirting with 40," but told Jay Leno, "I've been better, but I'm good today," Locklear said on "The Tonight Show." "Here I am, safe and sound."

Janet Jackson suffers migraines
In October, Janet Jackson was hospitalized for an undisclosed illness, postponing three shows. Weeks later, the 42-year-old reported suffering from vestibular migraines, which cause dizziness, nausea, and even hearing loss. Nearly 30 million Americans suffer from migraines, but vestibular migraines are uncommo,n with some doctors estimating only one to two per 1,000 headache-sufferers. Jackson resumed her Rock Witchu tour with no relapses to date.

Jennifer Love Hewitt's Body is a wonderland
After paparazzi shots of her in a swimsuit incited blog headlines such as "We know what you ate this summer, Love Everything!" actress Jennifer Love Hewitt became an advocate this year for women loving their bodies. "To all girls with butts, boobs, hips and a waist, put on a bikini—put it on and stay strong," she wrote on her blog. However, she quickly lost 18 pounds and posed for US Weekly, claiming she lost weight to increase energy levels. Now, she eats tiny snacks every hour and a half and set the goal to run a marathon by the time she turns 30 in February. She encourages young women to appreciate their bodies, saying, "I wish I had been nude from the time I was 12 until I was 28. I looked great!" in a Health magazine interview.

Heath Ledger dies
Oscar-nominated Australian actor Heath Ledger, 28, was found dead in his Manhattan apartment in January. His death was attributed to an accidental mixture of prescription drugs, including painkillers and anxiety and sleep medication. During the filming of "The Dark Knight," in which Ledger played the intense role of the Joker, the actor suffered from an apparent case of insomnia, which affects up to 15 percent of adults. "Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night," he told the New York Times last November. "I couldn't stop thinking. My body was exhausted and my mind was still going." Sleeping pills for insomnia often have side effects, such as daytime drowsiness, and can be habit-forming, but Ledger's death was caused by abusing several prescription medications.

More important dating tips to be happy

Expand your social circle
Looking to amp up your love life? Then it’s time to expand your social circle. Why? Basically, it’s the law of probabilities. The more people you know, the more you’ll mingle, and the more likely you are to meet The One (or at least someone fun to date).

But how exactly does one go about shifting gears from homebody to too-popular-to-stay-at-home? To answer that question, we culled advice from dating and networking experts on some fabulous ways to meet, greet and get out there! Read on for their simple strategies.

Join a same-sex social group
“Join a networking or social group or a sports team that isn’t coed,” suggests Love Coach Rinatta Paries of Fix Your Love Life. Why the same-sex connection? Well, women and men know men and women whom they are not dating but who may be great for you to date. “Once you create new social friendships, the people in your group will be happy to set you up on many dates with other people they know,” says Paries. “It may be a sibling, cousin, neighbor, a business associate or someone else they run across who immediately makes them think of you.” In other words, making new same-sex friends can lead to love connections you would never have made otherwise.

Keep business cards handy
How many times have you met someone nice in an unexpected place but had no easy way to suggest connecting again? It happens! And then later you kick yourself for not just saying, “Hey, should we get a coffee sometime or something?”

Here’s a really easy solution to avoid those missed social opportunities. If you’re looking to meet your potential match, always, always, always keep a business/contact card with you (in your pocket, purse, wallet, or whatever). “I’ve met interesting people while waiting at the vet’s office,” says networking expert Ronna Lichtenberg, author of Pitch Like a Girl and founder of www.clearpeakcommunications.com. “You never know… you could end up meeting Mr. or Ms. Right over a possible pet adoption!”

Feel uneasy about giving out a card with all your private info to strangers? Print a version with just your first name and an email address. You’ll find that whipping out a card is a lot easier than fumbling for a pen and scribbling down a phone number on an old receipt.

Do things you love
If you’re single, you’ve probably been told to join activities where you are likely to meet other single people, whether or not you are interested in the pursuit involved. FYI, people can see through activity posers. They’ll know the subject at hand isn’t really your cup of tea, and you’ll just wind up looking shallow.

A better bet? Forget about doing what everyone else is doing, and focus instead on what you dig! “You need to spend time doing the things you love so when you see someone that you are attracted to in that setting, you will have plenty to talk about,” suggests dating guru David Wygant, founder of www.davidwygant.com. “You want to meet someone who shares the same passions, and the best places to do that are where you are enjoying yourself. So pick four things you love to do and pursue them.”

Call upon classmate connections
OK, even if you weren’t valedictorian, class jock or on the prom court, you’d be amazed how reconnecting with the past can expand your future. There is just something about those old flames, school cliques and even enemies that can add spice to your adult life (plus, if these people saw you with braces or feathered hair, well… then they are likely to accept you now as well!).

You might also want to check out classmates.com or facebook.com. With just a little sleuthing, you might suddenly find that the cutie who sat in front of you in biology actually lives near you now.

Go outside your generation
Who says Gen X, Y, Z and whatever-other-letters can’t mix? Too many people tend to narrow their social circle to their demographic group. A better bet? Strive to be cross-generational! “Don’t limit yourself to meeting people your own age,” says Lichtenberg. “Everyone has families, and I have heard more than one story about moms, aunts and siblings engineering meetings that turned into marriages.”

Attend seminars
Looking for meaningful relationships? You might want to skip the bar. Though it does happen on occasion that a cocktail leads to happily-ever-after, you might find more people who are interested in something more at seminars and self-betterment workshops.

“People at personal-growth workshops and at seminars are typically more interested in connecting and creating friendships,” says Paries. “You may meet your mate, or you may meet someone who becomes one of your closest friends and becomes instrumental in you meeting your mate. Also, in the process, you will learn to improve the quality of your life and relationships.”

Practice sharing your friends
It’s a pretty good bet that if you really, really like a friend of yours, you’ll probably like at least a few of your friend’s friends as well. For that reason, it’s not a bad idea to invite friends to bring a pal to something you’re doing, even as simple as getting coffee. “It’s OK to say, ‘I want to meet more people like you because I think you’re great,’” says Lichtenberg. “People you like will know other people you’ll like.”

Finally, get in the habit of following up with any new potential friends you make. “There are too many people we meet and kind of like but don’t have a ‘system’ for following up—it can be as simple as emailing people like that the next day,” says Lichtenberg. “However, the more people you know, the more people who will have the chance to know about you.” In other words, go forth and get social. Your love life may thank you!

How to be most sought after profile online and impress readers

When writing our online profiles, too many of us spend too much time talking about our ideal match. You know, what they’d look like, what their personality would be like, their favorite book, movie, ice-cream flavor and so forth.

But those reading your profile want to know more about you—because they’re the ones doing the shopping. This means you’ll be more successful attracting the right people if you spend a bit of time and energy selling yourself, awkward as that may sound. Don’t feel comfortable blowing your own horn? Realise there are those who want to be with someone just like you if you spend more profile time selling yourself than advertising for someone else. Here’s how:
1. Get over yourself
The first step is seeing yourself differently, counsels professional story-teller, Catherine Conant. That will necessarily steer you clear of the same old generic language. “We tend to find refuge in generic language that allows us to be ‘one of a type’ instead of staking our rightful place as a person of genuine and unique value,” she says. Ask friends to describe what sets you apart from others. Then play off what they say to come up with your own vision of yourself.

2. Write your own story
The best way to start is to write a paragraph or two about yourself as a “test drive” before you tackle your profile. Says Conant: “Your story should illustrate something of who you are and what you hold important,” and getting it down on paper will help you get at the “essence of you” that you want to communicate. For instance, says Conant, “you might write, ‘My grandfather was a really important person in my life. I watched him struggle his whole life, but he never said a bad word about anyone. He loved to make us laugh and I watched him do hundreds of small acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. I think he was one of the most important teachers I ever had.’ Without taking credit for anything,” she points out, “you are stating something insightful about what you’re offering in a relationship.” You can then shape and edit that insight to work in your profile.

3. Sell, don’t advertise
“I was so busy focusing on what I wanted in a woman — a love of sports, no neediness, a desire to have kids — that I didn’t give a lot of clues about who I was as a potential mate,” says Wayne Robbins. That changed when his sister enumerated the good qualities of a woman she wanted to set him up with. “It hit me like a tonne of bricks that she never said one thing about what the woman wanted in me,” he recalls. “She was telling me the things she thought I would appreciate about her. After that I redid my profile to focus more on my good qualities, versus what I was seeking.” A few weeks later, he got an email from a woman he’s been dating now for over six months.

4. Stand out
So many people try to be everything to everyone, “the surest sign of insecurity,” notes branding expert Rob Frankel, the author of The Revenge of Brand X. You want to appear uniquely qualified and confident. “Sign on to your singles service as someone of the opposite sex and look at the people competing with you. You’ll be amazed at how many women and men say the same thing as the people right next to them. Then do exactly what they don’t do,” says Frankel, so you’ll stand out.

5. Extend the quality to your headline
Your headline is like your profile’s hand shake. It makes — or breaks — the first impression. So it needs to be high-quality, too. “Headlines speak volumes about you, perhaps beyond what you realise,” points out Mary Jo Fay, the author of When Your “Perfect Partner” Goes Perfectly Wrong. “You want to avoid things like ‘Oh-So-Lonely’ or “Captain Thigh Biter.’ I’ve really seen those, and they bring a lot of negative baggage.”

Yes, it takes time and energy and honesty to write a profile that really works well for you. The process may feel a little weird at first, but the results are worth it, Conant says. “To honestly know and claim your own gifts is to have a great advantage.” And, when you’re dating online, it could be what brings you into contact with your special someone.

sexy careers you can bank on

Depending on where you work and whom you work with, the words "sexy" and "job" shouldn't share a sentence. Even if you check all romantic notions at the door when you punch your time card, not everyone does.

Plenty of people are just as attractive as -- or more attractive than -- the profession they choose. Not just the obvious picks, such as athletes, doctors or models, but also some whose attractive quotients rise when they're on the clock.

Here are 10 careers that have more sex appeal than you probably realize:

1. Administrative assistants
When you visit almost any workplace, a smiling administrative assistant greets you. Very often you don't know if you're in the right place, whom you need to speak with or even what you need to do. Administrative assistants know the answers and, because they're your first points of contact, they have to be well-groomed and kind to visitors. Knowledge, good looks, a nice personality and helpfulness? Yes, please. And since they frequently work closely with high-level executives who value their opinions, they often possess a hidden but large cache of power. Administrative assistants pretty much have the whole package.

2. Baristas
If you're one of those coffee drinkers who don't speak to anyone and whom nobody wants to speak to until you've had your morning cup, is any occupation more attractive than barista? Before the sun rises, baristas are hard at work and ready to serve you with a smile. They understand your special ordering language and don a uniform, even if it consists of only casual clothes with an apron and cap. And no cologne or perfume they buy will ever be more alluring than the aroma of coffee that blankets them even after they leave work.

3. Hairstylists
Getting your hair cut is an intimate affair: The stylist's hands are all over your head, and your face is fairly close to his or her torso at all times. In any other circumstance, you'd consider such proximity a violation of personal space. But stylists have an ability to make you feel comfortable enough to talk about your personal life, and when you find the perfect one, you don't want anyone else touching your hair. Throw in a scalp massage and you're putty in their hands.

4. Disc Jockey
Clubs are teeming with sexy people (or at least people trying to be sexy), which means you've got a room full of perfumes, colognes, too much makeup, bad hairstyles and stumbling drunks. It's enough to make you turn around and walk away. But once you catch a glimpse of the stylish guy or gal in the booth who's spinning records (or hitting buttons on a laptop) and making the crowd dance, you suddenly want to stay. DJs possess one of those quirky talents we all wish we had and they look cool doing it. Bonus points if you catch his or her eye and get a song played for you.

5. IT workers
Although IT workers have earned a bad reputation for not understanding the plight of the computer-illiterate worker, they aren't the office villains some people have made them out to be. And if power is sexy, then these men and women probably outrank everyone. Whether you're low on the totem pole or an executive, if you can't open your e-mail account or figure out why your monitor is flickering, you call IT. In many offices, IT workers have the most lax dress code of all the departments, so you can't help but envy them.

6. Mail carriers
Mail carriers spend their days walking from house to house to deliver letters and packages, guaranteeing their legs look nice in those signature navy blue shorts. You know carriers are determined and trustworthy, seeing as they come to your house regardless of the weather and (hopefully) none of your letters are ever opened. Wouldn't most of us rather stay home on cold days and read personal letters and magazines from our bags?

7. Personal trainers
Personal trainers are in better shape than any of us will ever be, and that alone is sexy. What's more attractive is their determination to help their clients reach a goal. Whether you're excited or terrified when you hire a trainer, you'll be ready to keep the spare tire after a few weeks. Trainers are there to help you ignore that burning pain in your abs and the sweat stinging your eyes. Sure, you want to punch them when they call you a quitter, but their tough love helps you take that long, sweaty journey to fitness.

8. Photographers
Artsy types get a boost in the sexy department for having a strong sense of style and a unique perspective on the world. Even among artists, photographers stand out because they stay behind the camera, finding beauty in unconventional and overlooked places. Their willingness to stay out of the spotlight and focus their attention on someone else is endearing.

9. Psychologists
Whether or not you find your psychologist sexy is a personal matter that you might want to take up with him or her. But as a rule, people want to be heard and they like to talk about themselves, and psychologists make a living listening to people talk about themselves. They also help you solve your most pressing issues and you can rely on them for support (for a hefty fee, of course). What more could you want?

10. University professors
Behold the power of intellect: Someone who wasn't even on your romantic radar suddenly becomes the target of your affection when you find out he or she is intelligent -- or at least could be. Being a professor doesn't make anyone an automatic genius, but chances are these academics have expertise in at least one field, can speak a second or third language and have ambition (seeing as they spent a hefty portion of their time earning a few degrees). Plus, if anyone can make glasses go from nerdy to sexy, they can.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Love Hewitt Wins Restraining Order Against 'Stalker'

Actress Jennifer Love Hewitt has been granted a restraining order against an alleged stalker.

The "Ghost Whisperer" star filed a petition against David Nolte, 62, in December at Los Angeles Superior Court, stating she feared for her physical safety after he turned up at her mother's house bearing letters and flowers.

According to court documents, Love Hewitt allegedly received letters from Nolte describing "delusional and violent fantasies about having sexual relations with Ms. Hewitt. ... marring her, impaling her and envisioning her fiance with his head blown off."

Love Hewitt had also allegedly received plane tickets to Australia from Nolte, as well an itinerary for a trip he had planned for the two of them.

The restraining order, issued on Monday, orders Nolte to stay away from the star, her mother and her former fiance, Ross McCall, for three years.

Kidman Refutes 'Australia' Criticism

Hollywood actress Nicole Kidman has hit back at reports she is unhappy with her performance in new movie "Australia," insisting her comments have been misinterpreted by the media.

The star appears opposite Hugh Jackman in the Baz Luhrmann epic, which opened last month to mixed reviews.

Kidman was recently quoted as saying that she "can't look at this movie and be proud of what I've done", adding that she couldn't "connect to it emotionally."

But the actress is adamant her comments, in an interview with Sydney radio station 2day FM, were taken out of context, because she was actually referring to her whole body of work, claiming she can never bear to watch herself onscreen.

A representative for Kidman tells the Sydney Morning Herald, "It is quite ridiculous for anyone to believe the reports if they listened to the actual interview. It's hard to believe some of the world's media have fallen for it.

After Palin,Leslie,Britney,Obama,its Hilton victims of online hackers

Hackers have once again targeted Paris Hilton -- her official Web site has reportedly been infected with a vicious computer virus.

The socialite's site, ParisHilton.com, is said to have been hit by a malicious program that attaches itself to the computers of anyone visiting the site.

Any fans using the page are at risk of falling victim to the virus, which can steal their online bank details, according to OK! magazine.

Hilton was previously the victim of online crime in 2006, when hackers unlocked her cell phone and posted her contact list on the Internet.

Paris Hilton upbeat about her new album on her jailbird days

As far as shameful episodes in Los Angeles history go, there is little to match the injustice of Paris Hilton's incarceration in 2007. You will remember the news images: the disbelief at the verdict, the suspicion that the LAPD were engaged in racial profiling to the detriment of rich white girls. You will recall the disenfranchised population of Bel Air turning to civil disobedience, before the riots spread to Beverly Hills and threatened to engulf West Hollywood. And you will never forget a young woman, quite unprepared for her role as a cause celebre, appealing for, like, calm or whatevs.

What you will always have wondered is: will Paris ever write a dance track about this?

Amazingly, she has. It is called Jailhouse Baby, and the celebutante has just confirmed it will appear on her new album (though you can already hear her singing a totally ear-watering version of it on YouTube).

And so to Jailhouse Baby's opening lines.

"Seeing it on MTV/ All cameras's focused on me/ Helicopters up above/ Oh what a travesty/ There's a crazy world at war/ right outside of my front door/ They're wasting time on me/ I'm just a jailhouse baby."

Or how about a later verse?

"All those lonely nights of terror/ I thank you for your letters/ Words from around the world/ for the lonely little jail bird/ Still haunted by nightmares/ why's the system so unfair?/ But I'm stronger than before/ No I'm no longer scared."

Think you broke a butterfly on a wheel, LA? Think again.

I Work Just as Hard as Scarlett, Whines Job-Needing Lindsay

Lindsay Lohan is supposedly still on the wagon, but that hasn't stopped her from uncorking a mighty fine whine.
"You know what's hard?" the underemployed, drama-addicted starlet, 22, bellyaches in the February issue of Interview (the chat was conducted by Lauren Hutton). "I want to give back. I want to do all the things that will make me feel fulfilled. But whenever I do those things, people think it's a press stunt or something."
Lohan, who reportedly rang in the new year by publicly brawling with squeeze Samantha Ronson, blames the paparazzi for making her life difficult, insisting that "there's really no way of hiding from that," even though actual do-gooders such as Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are able to disappear -- with six kids in tow -- for extended periods of time.
When Hutton suggests that she go somewhere "where no one knows you," Lindsay sighs that "it's so impossible for me to actually do that," citing as evidence her November trip to Dubai for a swanky hotel opening, a star-packed soiree that drew everyone from Mary-Kate Olsen to Robert De Niro, not exactly the place to get away from it all.
"But the second that you complain about it, they say, 'Well, this is what you wanted, so this is what you're going to get.' That's all people see it as now. It's not, 'No, I just want to have some time for myself,'" she grouses, seemingly oblivious to her complete inability to stay away from the spotlight and enjoy a quiet night at home with a cup of cocoa and a good book. "There are things I want to do, and people don't understand that. You know, my car accident that I got into where I got my first charge, I wouldn't have been speeding up like I was if I didn't have people shoving cameras in my windows."
Lindsay appears to be referring to her May 2007 arrest for DUI after she curbed her Mercedes ("my favorite car," she points out, "which I worked my ass off to buy for myself") in Beverly Hills after a night on the town. Soon after, she entered rehab for the second of three times that year.

Lindsay gets her groove on at a London club last November. (©Retna Ltd.)
"I have become this girl who just loves to be photographed, doesn't know how to focus, doesn't know how to work on set, just loves the attention, knows how to go out at night, knows how to party," she fumes. "And you know what? I was 20 years old. I never went to college. I lived maybe six months out of my life like that, doing something wrong, and then I stopped. God forbid I should have ever learned my lesson. But at this point it's so hard for people to even believe that there was a lesson to be learned at all, because they just think I'm wrong."
And while some might question Lohan's math on that six-months-of-her-life figure (apropos of nothing, she was accused of bad behavior in October while guest-starring on "Ugly Betty," with her planned six episodes getting cut to four), she sighs that she can't shake her tabloid-stoked reputation.
"I just feel as though it's become a situation where people have manifested this caricature of who I am, and they act as if there's no real person inside of it," she gripes (although props for the five-dollar phrase "manifested this caricature"). "I mean, people really have come to believe -- directors, producers, agents, whoever it may be -- that I started in this because I wanted to be a celebrity. But that was never my intention."
What hurts the most, moans the actress, who has spent much of the last several months fighting with Ronson at hot spots around the globe and posting defensive messages on her MySpace page, "is that I work just as hard as any other actress around my age, like Scarlett Johansson, but I just don't get the opportunities that they get because people are so distracted by the mess that I created in my life. But that doesn't mean it's going to last forever."
(By the by, the reference to the Woody Allen-beloved starlet comes three years after Lohan reportedly scrawled a decidedly nasty dig at her in a bathroom stall at a New York bar. "I don't really know that person," Scarlett sniffed in the December issue of Allure. "I don't know what the motivation was.")
Lindsay also name-drops Heath Ledger in the chat, recalling some words of wisdom he gave her on fame: "He said, 'It's build you up to knock you down, and that's all it is. And you just have to see if you can stand through it.' And it is like that, if you put yourself in this situation. I was young, so maybe I did ... I always wanted to take the blame. I've always been apologetic for other people's faults."
She continues, "And I didn't even try everything. I was too afraid. The one thing I tried was the wrong thing. And maybe it was just because I'd seen someone else in my family do it -- not my mother. But, I don't know, it really ... It sucks."
Perhaps with all the free time she's had on her hands lately, Lohan should consider enrolling in a few film study classes, if only to mix with a more cinematically erudite crowd.

"I wanted to be a movie star. But movie stars are not what they used to be ... I don't think there are too many films coming out these days that we're going to look at in the future and say, 'This is one of the great ones,'" explains the star of such turkeys as "I Know Who Killed Me" and "Just My Luck." "Like, what is the great film that I will tell my children about? I'm still going to tell them about the old films, the Hitchcock films. And people my age don't even know who those people are. I can't even have a conversation with most people of my generation about that, because they'd be like, 'OK, she's a freak. Something's wrong with her.'"
Meanwhile, it seems Lohan was in no mood for a conversation -- about film or anything else -- when she hit Los Angeles hot spot Apple Lounge on Tuesday night with a girlfriend and an assistant but sans Ronson, says E! News.
"She seemed kind of indifferent, emotionless," recalls a spywitness. "It was definitely apparent her friends were trying to cheer her up. It looked to be a 'first night back out on the town' sort of thing."
Lindsay, who took to her blog on Monday to deny breakup reports, was spotted with Sam on Wednesday as they exited the DJ's house, but they ignored shutterbug-lobbed questions about the state of their relationship.
That same day, Lohan took a break from all her hard work to go on a paparazzi-documented shopping trip to Burberry and Barneys in Beverly Hills.

Tips of dating ,and how to get asked out for a date

I was recently talking to a friend (one who’s never had any trouble meeting men) and was stunned when she said she had never been asked out on a date. She’s had booty calls, hooked up at parties and even had a couple of boyfriends, but never has any guy asked her out on a real date. And when I asked around, I realised that her situation is not so rare. Why is it that some women get asked out all the time and others rarely or not at all? Here, experts offer insight on just that topic. So dust off your dating shoes, try these tips, and get ready to be asked out. Tip 1: Insist on the best. So, there’s a guy you like, and you’re kind of seeing him—when he texts at the last minute and wants to hang out. You wish he’d ask you out for real, but you don’t say anything to him about it. Newsflash: He likes you, and if you go along with the texting tactic, he’ll keep thinking you’re fine with it. So why would he do the extra work to call you? You don’t have to be high-maintenance to let a guy know how to treat you. “If you settle for less or expect less, you will get less,” says Vanessa Marsot, a licensed family therapist. Stand up for what you want. You may have to say no to that next booty call, but if you hold out for what you want, you will actually get it.

Tip 2: Rid him of rejection fears. Having a guy you don’t know start talking to you can be nerve-racking—What’s he after? Is he into me? you wonder. And while they may seem clueless, men pick up on it when our defenses go up. But instead of interpreting it as a sign that we’re nervous, they think we’re looking for the nearest exit. “Guys hate rejection,” says Steve Santagati, author of The MANual. “Our egos are a lot more fragile than women think.” Only the bravest guy will pursue a woman if there’s a chance he’ll be shot down, so let him know you’re totally interested. To put his mind at ease, smile when he suggests an activity or movie and say something like, “I keep meaning to try/see that, but I don’t have anyone to go with.” It sets him up seamlessly to ask you out. Remember, guys aren’t big on subtlety, so what you think of as so obvious will just seem like a relief to him. Tip 3: Keep him talking. Another obstacle to old-fashioned courtship is when a conversation loses momentum. Instead of smiling their way through an awkward silence, many men take that pause to be a woman’s way of saying, “I can’t wait to get rid of you.” So think of three good, creative questions you can ask in the event that someone you’re interested in starts talking to you. For example: Where were you born? (Good start.)Where would you like to travel that you’ve never been before? (Better.)Wanna have a thumb war? (Home run!) Asking questions will show even the most timid man that you’re interested and keep him talking until he asks you out—or at least asks for your number. Tip 4: Give him a preview. You don’t have to ask a guy out to be the one to initiate contact. Instead, suggest plans and think of it as a “pre-date”… a date to see if you want to go on a date. You can figure out if you’d even be interested in the person, and you get to pick the location and time. Do something casual like a walk or lunch. You get to see each other with your defenses down, and once you’ve hung out in a friendly way, he’ll have the motivation (because he’s seen how hot you are) — and comfort (he knows you’re up for spending time with him) — to schedule something more romantic. You don’t have to make the first move, but a pre-date gives him an excellent opportunity to do so. Tip 5: Practice, practice, practice. Making seamless conversation and dating the right way may seem impossibly foreign, but the more you do it, the more naturally it will come. “A date may not be with the man of your dreams, but it’s practice, and once you’re in the zone, it’s easy to stay there,” says Anna David, the relationship expert on G4’s Attack of the Show! and the author of Party Girl. So practice getting asked out, and practice dating. Practice saying yes when you’re invited to things. You may have an awkward pre-date with someone who isn’t right for you. That’s OK—no, actually, it’s great! Practice asking questions even if you’re not interested in dating that particular person. Most important, practice saying no to people who aren’t giving you what you are looking for. Soon, the only guys in your orbit will be the ones who do ask you out, and you’ll wonder why you ever needed this article!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Obama,Britney,Leslie,Palin's victims of online hackers





Its utter madness,prevailing of course,celebritries have it tough,their lives are micro-scrutinised,not only by media,fans,critics but many psychos as well.
Barack Obama,Britney Spears,Leslie Tripathy,Sarah Palin have had their emails,sites hacked.Wats interesting is Leslie Tripathy's 2 email accounts have been hacked.
The hacker claims Leslie is lost in LOndon,and has S.O.S(ed) her contacts to send money to a western union bank account,as Leslie was away ,vacationin in sumplace thats not known,its out,she was oblivious of the hacks,after 2 weks she found out,and managed to retrieve her hotmail account,but not the gmail account.
Sarah Palin's yahoo account was hacked too,now U.S.A President elect Barack Obama and Pop Princess Britney Spear's Twitter accounts been hacked.
Its a serious offence.The hackers should be put to task.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Jhumpa Lahiri among 'thinking man's sex symbols'

New York: Indian origin author Jhumpa Lahiri, with her "hypnotic eyes", has been named among the top 10 "sex symobls of the thinking man" for 2008, which put Serbian tennis player Ana Ivanovic in the number one slot.

Jhumpa Lahiri among 'thinking man's sex symbols'
The list, prepared by the popular website The Daily Beast run by former New Yorker journalist Tina Brown, places US-based Lahiri at No.8.
"Jhumpa Lahiri is the gorgeous author of three seriously literary books including, this year, a collection of short stories called 'Unaccustomed Earth'. Those hypnotic eyes are devastating," wrote Touré, a TV journalist, columnist and author.
Clarifying the concept, he notes: "Before we dive into the Top Ten Thinking Man's Sex Symbols for 2008, let's make sure we're all on the same page. TMSS is a term that's thrown around a lot. So let's quantify.
"A man has two minds. The lower mind is brainless ... The upper mind, which works with actual grey matter, is more persnickety. The upper mind, when employed, is moved by intelligence, success, power, self-confidence, a smart sense of humour, and, of course, not having a castrating nature.
"And that's the challenge. Can a woman be independent, creative, sharp, witty, strong, and self-empowering without making me feel like she wants to be a man?"
According to the columnist, a TMSS is someone "we imagine having great conversations with, laughing with, revelling in her success with, and getting drunk on her power with. Where Maxim girls are purposefully brainless, we look at a TMSS and say she's hot because she's smart and beautiful".
The list for the past year is topped by 21-year-old tennis player Ivanovic with British novelist Zadie Smith in "honourable mention".
"If Zadie Smith had published a book in 2008 she'd be #1 (not only is the chick beautiful and brilliant and literary and into hiphop, but she's also got this really sexy deep voice, not Kathleen Turner deep, but a really nice, full, low tone that always kills me). But she didn't, so she's the obligatory honourable mention.
"...And when tennis produces a woman so gorgeous that it's unbelievably hard to take your eyes off her, she's an insuperable TMSS. And unlike that pathetic cream puff Anna Kournikova, my #1's not a frequently double-faulting, habitual first-round loser. No, my #1 won the French Open this year and reached the finals of the Australian Open weeks before winning in Paris.
"Ana Ivanovic from Serbia is currently the fifth-best woman in the world. She's got a mean forehand, is studying finance online as she travels the world, winning tournaments, and is blowing men away with a butterscotch-coloured face that's all smooth slopes and haunting eyes. Ivanovic is the most beautiful female professional athlete of all time."
The list:
No.10: Jennifer Granholm, governor of Michigan.
No.9: Samantha Power, Irish American journalist, author and academic
No.8 Jhumpa Lahiri
No.7: M.I.A., stage name of Mathangi "Maya" Arulpragasam, British song writer and artist of Tamil descent
No.6: Meredith Vieira, American journalist and TV celebrity
No.5: Lisa Ling, American TV journalist
No.4: Katie Couric, American TV journalist
No.3: Sarah Silverman, American singer, actor, comedian, writer
No.2: Tina Fey, American TV actor, producer
No.1 Ana Ivanovic and Zadie Smith (Honorable Mention)
Source: Indo-Asian News Service